I was forced to have sex last night and I want to talk to someone about it. Who can I call?

  • Relationship Abuse

You should seek immediate medical care to be evaluated for any health risks including HIV. You may be eligible for post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) which has to be started right away and is used to prevent HIV. You may also need to talk to a trusted adult – a parent, a relative, a health clinic provider, or  counselor. Another option is to contact a counselor at Sojourner House or Day One – they have trained staff that helps individuals who are being forced to have sex or are in abusive relationships.

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If my partner says “yes” to kissing, does that mean I can touch their breasts and/or genitals?

Just because a person consents to kissing, it doesn’t mean that they are consenting to all sexual behaviors. It may seem like they want to go further or engage in other behaviors, but the only way to know for sure is to ask for consent. It is important to communicate with your partner about what behaviors they want to engage in each and every time. Source: amaze.org

Can I rely on body language or non-verbal cues for consent?

No, body cues are not an exact science and leave way too much room for misinterpretation. And since they blur the lines between giving and receiving consent,it is safest to get an unmistakable and enthusiastic yes from your partner before engaging in sexual activity. There is NO CONSENT when: Someone says “no” There’s not a “no” but there’s not a “yes” either There’s a “yes” while someone is intoxicated or...

How big is the dating violence problem?

Teens often think some behaviors, like teasing and name-calling, are a “normal” part of a relationship. However, these behaviors can become abusive and develop into serious forms of violence. Many teens do not report unhealthy behaviors because they are afraid to tell family and friends. Teen dating violence is common. Data from CDC’s Youth Risk Behavior Survey in 2019 indicate that among U.S. high school students who reported dating during...

How do I decide whether to leave my abusive partner?

Only you can know what’s best for you. Statistically speaking, very few abusers stop being abusive. For some, leaving is a powerful way to regain control of their lives. For others, leaving can further complicate their situations. Abusers often make terrifying threats to shut down the possibility of leaving (threatening self-harm or suicide, or threatening to hurt us or our loved ones). Social, economic, and political factors play significant roles...

How can I help/support a friend who is in an abusive relationship?

If you think that a friend or someone you know is in an abusive or unhealthy relationship, it can be difficult to know what to do. Here are a few tips to help you talk to your friend. Calmly start a conversation on a positive note Find time to talk to your friend one-on-one in a private setting. Start by giving your friend positive affirmations and complimentary statements like, “You’re...

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